Dysfunction role of families
In a newspaper there is a plan of the Ministry of Primary and Secondary Education in relation to the existence field is performed keayah-bundaan. This is considered important because formal education can not be separated from the role of parents or family. Because as it is understood to form the personality of a child can not be left entirely to the school.
The family is part of the foundation of society. The family has the responsibility to develop the potential of children, so that children grow optimally and develop, have to participate in the dynamics of Community development. "The work ethic and morale of the oldest states that the public does not lose power if its members do not carry out their family responsibilities (William, 1995: 2)." Thus, it is understandable that a person will be optimal dynamics in society capable of if he understands the social dynamics in the family. As in a family, the child can understand their roles and functions, responsibilities, rules, all of which are fundamental in the dynamics of social life.
As part of the development of society, not only in the social field, the. The family as an essential component, but religion also puts family as vital The majority of Indonesia's Islamic religious community would be familiar with the concept of family in Islam, namely Sakinah, Mawaddah and mercy, which is tantamount to a harmonious family. Islam puts family as the main basis in the development of quality of life, through the birth of generations of quality. Generations are expected to be useful for the people, so as to involve in the development of a strong community. Drs.H.Bgd.M.Leter explained that the budget a base frame for standing upright and the establishment of a nation under construction. Odds of a society to be awakened with a strong and stable, without relying on a strong domestic and robustness, namely household Sakinah, Mawaddah and mercy (Samara).
In order to realize a harmonious family or Samara is apparently not an easy thing. Because the family is very prone to conflict, which led to the invalidity of the role and functions of the family. William (1995: 184), expressed his opinion about the causes of system failures family roles, namely:
1.Ketidaksahan, this is an incomplete unit. Then the father or the mother is not running
role.
2.Perceraian, breakdown of the family is here, because one or both partners
, decided to leave each other and thus stop obligations
role.
3. "Family membranes empty", the family members still live here together, but not
each one another and to support primarily a failure
welcome or cooperate emotional today ,
4. Absence of the couple, because it is not desirable, some families
Split, because the man or the woman died, thrown into prison or another.
5. Failure of the important role that "undesirables" can a man or woman suffering
mental illness. Serious illness and persistent can
also lead to the failure of
an important role in the running. It is the role and functions of the family, more or less, the children will have an impact. William, explained that children who grew up to grow more psychologically healthy and happy in a happy family. Then according to the research and Elenaor Sheldon (William, 1995: 206) states that teens are naughty relatively more likely to come from households who are divorced intact.
However, it should be understood that the family dysfunction is possible not only because of it. Problems in how divorce Because the family is intact, but the role and tasks of each member of the family have a negative impact not also lead to the children. Families can not submit more on school education only. Families should be involved in the education of children, especially with regard to matters that apply in social norms.
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