Social Interaction Development Youth
Eureka Education . Social development in adolescence can be seen from two properties, both of which started the formation of peer groups with the same sex or of different sexes and began to separate from their parents.
1. peer group
Accelerate connected development in puberty with sexual maturation, which ultimately resulted in social development to a change. occurs before puberty is usually the child will be able to establish close relationships with peers. Along with it also brought a group of children to play together or to make a plan. The nature of a typical group of children before puberty is that the group of the same sex was. Equation Sex can help the development of gender identity and prepare the feelings with the experience associated identification media. While daring children at puberty, have begun to get involved with the opposite sex in various activities.
In the early years of puberty, tend teenagers to have a broader membership. In other words, often friends or neighbors are members of the youth group. Normally, the group is more heterogeneous than the peer group. For example, a group of peers in adolescence are usually a mix of people from different groups to have. Increasingly intense interaction increases causes cohesive group. In the group with strong cohesion, it will be developed, the climate and the norms of a particular group. But that is dangerous for the formation of identity. At this time he was more developed with its role as a member of the group rather than a personal pattern. But sometimes the insistence of the norms of the group makes it difficult to build trust.
2. Remove from parents
the demand for separation from parents and towards peers is a response to the internal status of young children. After the onset of puberty emerge for social cohesion milienu parents a great discrepancy between the physical maturity. Under these circumstances, many contradictions between his early youth with parents, including:.
a difference in the standards of conduct
youths take early often that standards behavior of his parents while he was considered modern fashioned. They expect that their parents would correspond to modern behavior.
b. Feel harassed
adolescents often feel hate when socio-economic status are not allowed to have the same status symbols with their colleagues. As clothing, shoes, etc. accecoris At this age it is very unfortunate if the work ordered around the house.
c. Behaviors that are less mature
Usually parents a pattern develop punish when teenagers ignore school work, responsibility and snacks at will shirking. to make prohibition and punishment of hate parents.
d. Problems doorstop
active social life because he often melaggar regulations. Over time, went home and with whom he. In contact, especially with the opposite sex
e. Methods of discipline
If the disciplinary procedure applied parents are considered unfair or childish young rebel. The uprising occurs in a family, if one parent is dominant than the other. This causes parenting tend to be authoritarian.
In Indonesia, there are still restrictions on adolescent development. On the one hand want to, even though removing from the parents, but still live in most early adolescents with parents. Moreover, economic opportunities, even by their parents depend. You can not marry, cultural intercourse is not allowed according to the religious and social norms, even if they had been able to keep a date a date with another friend kind. They were trying to reach freedom in dating. They have the same tendency was freedom to live in accordance with the age and sex. This means that as a sign of maturity, they begin with their parents in an effort to offer the best of the relationship of their emotions, to be a member of the peer group.
After Maccoby (1984) system, the parents and children binds the family of regulatory coregulasi modify relationships in relationships. That give in this case, always a parent has the freedom their to determine their own children. This does not block the cooperative relationship between parents and their children. Normally communication is established with the mother was much closer than the father. Communication with the mother covers the problems of everyday life, while the problems with the Father feeling of teenage life in the community.
In children release women is somewhat more difficult, it is caused by the interaction between natural feminine with the values of the surrounding communities. In Indonesia, particularly in Java community of young girls to loving parents and families to be expected in the deeper meaning, for example, care, maintenance and charge of the home and family. However, this does not mean that the children of women do not have equal opportunities in society.
In the early teens, the desire, with the aim to find from the parents. According to Erikson regards pperkembangansosial this process is referred to as a search for identity, that is, steadily towards the formation of identity towards individuality where this to independence is an important aspect in the development of the self.
early teens effort ooriginalitasjuga also shows the opposition to adults and solidarity to reach towards peers. The principle of emancipation is possible that the second movement between independence with dependence on the parents, the distance between the generations is increased (the generation gap).
The distance between the generations is meant here, does not mean that it is good no relationship. It is indeed the age of these children often do not understand their parents to do things that were not, as she had hoped. Normally at this time began the seeds of antagonism between children and parents arise. Based on the research discrepancies between children and parents among others appearance, choice of friends, school dismissal time is not appropriate, respect for the elderly is missing, etc. In fact, at this time, young people are more advanced than their parents.
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